Pleasing ourselves has become most important aspect of our life. To accommodate our right or wrong wishes we go to any extent and justify them with all possible things. Be it at the cost of blaming our parents, our Spouse, our Children, our Friends, our Society, God.
We are a coward not to accept that we are responsible for what happened to us. Always finding others to put the blame on.
For instance, I didn’t score in a subject because I was forced by my parent to choose the subject. I can never have a good life with my spouse because she/he is my parent’s choice.
I am forced for infidelity because my spouse doesn’t understand me.
Couldn’t we accept all such decisions of our life because life is about looking forward and making it better than crying on the split milk or mourning on our death again and again?