The best realization is
“I’m going to work and deliver my duties, own my responsibilities till my last breathe. I’m aware of the struggle life has every day and I don’t resent the life’s approaches to make me stronger and wiser.”
People wait for good times which according to them means no work, no responsibilities, no duties and no risks but all gains, prosperity, richness, wisdom without having to do much to acquire them. We also deny that we don’t expect such a cake walk or perfect life.
If this wasn’t the expectation, then why do we crib about everything?
A journey to inner you to realize and match your thoughts, actions and words are so important.