When in a crowd, you aren’t visible, your flaws are hidden, your personality isn’t visible, you aren’t judged, your actions aren’t followed.The real show and adventure begins only when you climb up the ladder in life, in career, in parenting.
Eyes follow you even in solitude. Thereon in every area you need to lead by example. Start practicing what you preach. Own up your mistakes and correct them in others lives.
Learn and acquire all the new skills in zero downtime. Life gets challenging only then. And very few people win this phase with dignity,sacrifices,humility and hard work. Else most of them resort to escapism, blame game or sympathy.
But all these lead to either poor parenting, poor people management or poor self management and disrespect from people.