You can’t be in ruins with a justification that I’ve come too far or someone drove me here.
In the first place, if you have to say I’ve come too far, where is it leading you to becomes an important question to answer. What are your gains and losses of being there is the second question.
And if you want to blame someone else for driving you there, you were neverva kid or arent a kid to be droven somewhere without your consent. No one will justify the reason or sympathise you for such lame reasons. No one will stay guilty for what they do to you. They will reason it out with their justification to overcome their conscience.
There is always a return ticket.
And wiser ones will chose it.