All the problems start with I dont know what I should be doing to make my wife/ husband happy. I love my wife/husband. But I dont find them to be satisfied.
It’s but natural for you to take your wife / husband for granted and say “I will die for you when time comes.I love him / her so much”. You don’t get an opportunity ever to die for the other in more than 9 out of 10 cases. Does that mean the 9 cases should never feel that their better half loves them?
If you want to feel, she / he doesn’t need me. No one needed anyone ever if we din’t give ourself options. And in today’s scenario when both are financially independent, emotionally more virtual shoulders are available in friends to support them. The only fuel to run the show for 30-40 years is speak your heart out more often. Connect and reconnect with each other’s emotions. Spend time with each other.
Reiterate your love by showing it in small, daily, routine things you do. Never miss a chance to say and show that you love them.