Hey Moms and Dads! Teach each other and learn how to treat and speak to each other.

Hey Moms and Dads! Teach each other and learn how to treat and speak to each other. Your children will follow the same. Respect in words and action from your child is the reflection of your own actions and words towards each other.

-Sucheta Gour

Daughters are angels. As a mother, you live your life twice with a daughter.

Daughters are angels. As a mother, you live your life twice with a daughter. They are mother’s shadow and reflection. As a father, you see your mother, sister, daughter all in one person – that adds to feeling the warmth of all three relations again and throughout. They are Dad’s  great treasure. So the joy a daughter gives is infinite, invaluable and unmatchable.
Deep in her heart, she always belongs to her parents.
Daughters are cutie pie, sugarplum, adorable, sweetheart, beloved, lovable, precious, delightful, heavenly,  a doll, light of life, God’s best gift etc.., etc…., to infinity.
Their smiles, laughters, innocence, tantrums, wishes .. are just out of the world.
You feel complete when they are around.
Happy Daughter’s Day to all the ones who have one and to those who are one!! You make the world ‘Wow’ with your presence.

-Sucheta Gour

There are no broken marriages.There are broken children and a broken ‘YOU’.

There are no broken marriages.There are broken children and a broken ‘YOU’. The YOU whom others are waiting to make an opportunity of.
Its okay to fight.
Its okay to agree to disagree.
Its okay to be intolerant towards certain things of each other.
Its okay to get lost and come back wiser too.
Its okay to curse God and take off your frustrations.
But its important to stay together inspite of all odds.


Because, some day, if you are determined to do it, you will turn your world the best place to live in by whatever means that works for you..
There will be realisations. There will be compensations. There will be making up things for you by God himself.
Stay put. Be vocal in a sensible way. Plan to make the other one realise your importance and bring in self- realisation too.

Have controlled expectations. Cling less. Give yourself enough space. Communicate your inner thoughts. Make yourself better that you  have to be valued by default. Contribute mutually.
Bring in the dawn for yourself. No one can do it for you.

-Sucheta Gour

Lord Ganesha comes with lot of positivity every year.

Lord Ganesha comes with lot of positivity every year. Wish we keep that energy, positivity, hope and happiness when he leaves back too.Bcoz never he leaves us.its always we who send him off. We should stop treating Ganesha as a guest who stays a while at our home and keep him in our hearts throughout with the same energy and positivity.We will win most of the life’s battle

Sucheta Gour

The problem is not that people can’t change.The problem is they dont want to change.

The problem is not that people can’t change.The problem is they dont want to change. And the greatest reason is because they don’t have the confidence that they can change. The second reason is, it takes consistent efforts to change. The third reason is the fear of acceptance of the changed personality.

Sucheta Gour

Humbleness and Modesty are excellent personality traits and not weaknesses.

Humbleness and Modesty are excellent personality traits and not weaknesses.

Being accessible is giving importance to the person – not being less important or less valued in the society.

Sharing knowledge doesn’t mean you are habitual to speaking more.It only means you want to share to others everything you know because you have less time with people.

If you are a befriending personality, it doesnt mean you are desperate for friends or you want attention or you are lonely, it only means you like caring for the whole world and intend to make a difference to everyone’s life you come across.



Being jovial doesnt mean you are hiding your sorrows.You only want to squeeze the life out of life. You have learnt to value every moment of your life. You want to bring a smile on everyone’s face.

Staying happy isn’t doing favour on anyone but on self.You live a contented life when you are happy. Because happiness is contagious in both ways, whether it spreads jealousy or happiness. Inspite of spreading jealousy people want to adopt that quality of yours.



If you are advising people with your experiences , it doesnt mean you want to show your superiority or intelligence , but, you want to reduce their trials and impact lives.

Inspite of all the above, you cant match the levels of a parent of anyone, you can only be a mentor because everyone has different acceptance, absorption, reciprocation and gratification levels.

-Sucheta Gour

Happy Independence day!!

Adopt Independence from all the harmful thoughts and actions like enmity, jealousy, selfishness, hostility, distrust, antagonism, ill-will, bad-mouthing, destructive thinking, over-assumption, lack of confidence, laziness, poor focus, lack of purpose, lack of persistence, procastination.
From the chains fastened around your mind and soul.
Happy Independence day!!

-Sucheta Gour

Way or phase of life?

Way or phase of life?
I never feel like celebrating or contented after reaching success in any assignment. I ask myself ‘What next?’
I feel life doesn’t have a final destination than death. I enjoy the journey of wisdom I keep gaining in the process of reaching somewhere ahead every time. My hunger for knowledge and passing by different milestones grows intense every hour. I dont like resting after any assignment because I dont feel I’ve travelled enough to rest. I experience immense peace in this state of mind.
I love to keep working hard but not halting enough to enjoy the results. I’m eager to move to the next work.
I don’t know to grieve anything because I’m more on the grateful side towards life.


I don’t or din’t have complains which I could carry for long about anyone because either no one came so close or I din’t expect anything from anyone or I din’t give them the right over me or they din’t stay enough to expect.


I am in a spot where my mind balances out any emotion and adds more towards happiness and contentment in every moment of my life. Sinking into tranquility forever.

– Sucheta Gour

Is being happy a sin? Who gives them the right to decide whether you have to be happy or sad?

Is being happy a sin?
People get judgmental about you.
They count your problems and dispose off your reasons to be happy. Who gives them the right to decide whether you have to be happy or sad?
We hear people saying ,
[  ] he has this problem,
[  ] his son or daughter isn’t successful,
[  ] he isn’t happy about his spouse,
[  ] he has financial problems,
[  ] he is struggling with his career,
[  ] he owes us money,
[  ] he isn’t happy at his job.
How can he be happy?
What should be your reaction?


JUST IGNORE.
You dont need a reason to be happy.
You dont owe your happiness to anyone but ‘YOU’.
Happiness is a state of mind.
There are many more genuine and strong reasons to be happy.
[  ] Problems can be overcome only with a happy mind.
[  ] You are happy because you are blessed with a family.
[  ] Your happiness brings smiles to all the people you care about.
[  ] You get distressed by keeping yourself happy and cheerful.
[  ] You dont know how long you are alive, so celebrate life.
[  ] All your organs are working and you aren’t dependent on anyone. Celebrate your fitness.
[  ] Your mind is peaceful.
[  ] You are a kind hearted good human being with lot of contentment.
  So on and so forth………………..


Stay happy, do not hesitate to show your strength by showing how you can keep yourself happy in the toughest situation. Your happiness might bring a smile on people’s face and give them courage to fight life with a smile. Others sympathies or judgement cannot be a fuel to your life.Your happiness alone is your strength.

-Sucheta Gour

Who is a father? What he means to his child?

Happy Father’s Day!!
Who is a father?
A son’s guide.
A daughter’s world.
An anchor for his children whenever they dodder.
Calm, composed as a river with ocean roaring in his heart.
A ship for his family to sail through the terrifying ocean of life.
Always falls short of words but rich in emotions.
A pillar to cling on, a shelter to feel safe even in the worst of the storms.
So much to say but still fall short of words to say , What he means to his child?

-Sucheta Gour