Faith in any relation is love. Faith in God is also love.

I haven’t come across a God who cursed or punished. We chose our sorrows and happiness through our decisions and deeds.Its only that we weren’t courageous enough to own them or accept them. So we chose God to blame – Escapism.

It’s important to be grateful than being great. Being grateful creates humbleness. Being great creates attitude.

Faith in any relation is love. Faith in God is also love.

-Sucheta Gour

Start seeing yourself from their (people’s) side. You will get the answers for the way they trapped you,  loved you, hated you, treated you, abused you.

Start seeing yourself from their (people’s) side. You will get the answers for the way they trapped you,  loved you, hated you, treated you, abused you. There will be 2 or 3 probabilities for all their actions and behaviours. And then,  you don’t have these questions of why did they do this to me, why do they love me or why am I so important to them. You will get to know their reasons for all of them. And then you have only few questions to deal with.

Should they be in your life? If yes, what level of interaction and transparency to be maintained. How much access you will want to give them to your life? If no, how well you will avoid them or slip out from their life. Why is it important to do this activity? To free the bandwidth on your mind and get better constructive at your work than wasting your precious time on unworthy, unwanted people or things. Or to keep yourself connected to genuine people who really care for you and love you.

-Sucheta Gour

Hey Moms and Dads! Teach each other and learn how to treat and speak to each other.

Hey Moms and Dads! Teach each other and learn how to treat and speak to each other. Your children will follow the same. Respect in words and action from your child is the reflection of your own actions and words towards each other.

-Sucheta Gour

Are Men doing enough to protect Women? who created ths bias?

All men need to carry only one ethical social responsibility towards women.Create a world where their daughters, wives and sisters will be safe. The actual problem is the division  between their dear ones and others in their mind. The belief that I will keep my world protected and cast an evil eye on other’s world. As the saying goes, “What goes around has to come around”, so , none of the women turn out to be safe.Your daughter, wife is someone else’s prey. Other’s daughter, wife are prey to you.

We are still in the animal thought process. We dont stand for or with a woman insulted, humiliated, despised, mis-behaved because the fire hasn’t reached our homes yet. We are waiting for it to reach by adding fuel by promoting this culture. We are fine to pass comment, degrade as a woman or a man on another woman who is a colleague, boss. Because we see competition for self in her or our ego being hurt. Our egoes are hurt on a woman arguing and not when a man argues. So, who created ths bias? We are envious when we have a competitor, male or female but we attack the gender perpective when women, why? We complain about a woman’s commitments back home. We never speak about the man who doesn’t help her in her chores.

There are good and bad people in both genders. We can’t term anyone bad just because of the gender. Agreed 1000%. Then why are we trying to protect our daughters, wives more than our sons or husbands? Dont we trust our own kind? 

And I appreciate all those men who say I’m not this character described above. Done.
But, being a silent audience watching this all around even with our closest relatives, friends being on the attacker or tale bearer side. Aren’t we being passive ?

-Sucheta Gour

Keeping emotions aside is the most important thing to do if you want to improve someone.

Keeping emotions aside is the most important thing to do if you want to improve someone. Else you are tackled by the one whom you want to improve. Eventually, your purpose isn’t served.

-Sucheta Gour

Every person can be read in volumes

Every person can be read in volumes. Perhaps, very less of us make an attempt to read them without being judgemental or getting involved. That’s how we turn out to be biased.

-Sucheta Gour

Don’t ever expect a sorry from the person who hurts you.

Don’t ever expect a sorry from the person who hurts you. Forget the wounds faster. And scars dont hurt. They just remind you of the lessons learnt passing by. You should’nt make the person who hurt you decide when and whether to heal you. Because, if the one who hurt you did’nt think while hurting you, he wouldnt bother to heal you either..

-Sucheta Gour

The worries of today’s generations

The worries of today’s generations
I dont have a girl friend.
I dont have luxuries.
I dont have a car.
My parents aren’t rich.
How will I earn money?
I dont have branded clothes.
How to seek attention and be popular without sacrifices?
How to have a better style, swag and fashion sense?
How I look outward is more important than how I look from within.
When the focus is so much diverted to materialistic things, how will the knowledge advance and will they ever understand the importance of giving.


Eventually, there will be only a bunch of people who will focus on giving back to the society, discipline and mankind. Majority of the population from this generation focuses on receiving. And the receiving might be any way – wealth, luxuries, career growth, love, attention, success or respect. The world only revolves around themselves. Me, My life, My happiness, My ego, My word, My self respect.
No one is keen on creating a better world. Everyone has created their own world within the actual world and limited themselves to it. Inclusive thinking is a myth.


There has to be lot of brain storming and reiteration on how we want the world to look like. Else there will be such pandemic, habitat and biodiversity loss, water and food scarcity, gender inequality, poverty which will occur to reset out thought process. The  primary focus should be,  to have a  bettter world for our future generations.

-Sucheta Gour

Everytime genuinely someone  tries to bring peace to imbalance, immature minds.

Everytime genuinely someone  tries to bring peace to imbalance, immature minds, they are reciprocated with a feeling that they are doing a favour on themself. There are many genuine and good souls who love to calm minds, but they are forced to pay with their self respect. Eventually, such angels get disheartened for a while but are used to their own personalities of helping others by default.
Hats off to them!!

-Sucheta Gour

Change, a great topic. How much to change? Change for the trend or change to be unique?

Change, a great topic. Change is inevitable. World is changing. You will perish if you dont change. How much to change? Change for good or bad? Change for the trend or change to be unique?
Change to be accepted or to be successful?
So many questions associated with change and very less clarity on what is to be done.
I need to change to look cool, to behave cool, fashionable, to be with the world and not left behind. Or I need to change to learn more, increase my potential, be happy, spread positivity, look confident or
I need to change because my next generations feel I’m outdated or because I need to adapt to technology.


I want to belong with my friends, I want to be accepted by them. Or I want to pick only the right things to change into something Im going be proud of irrespective of others’ Non-acceptance.


Not getting carried away or not being biased by anyone is the need of the hour for anyone to have a unique and non regrettable approach.
Change can be a boon or bane based on the approach , action derived and  results expected out of it.

-Sucheta Gour