Download your gratitude in the right place – Relationship of Mother | Wife | Love |Caring

It is very common and easy to glorify another woman, but very difficult and rare to appreciate, support and respect the woman in our life.

How often have we told our Mom,

“You’ve been a Wonderful Mom, I owe you all my good qualities and achievements till now. You’ve made the toughest compromises and sacrifices to make me reach where I am.”

or to your wife –

“You’ve stood by me through thick and thin. I couldn’t have done better in my life without you. You keep me focused on my goals, by keeping me away from all the other worries and challenges of life about home and children. You have supported me to have a good journey of life.”

“If not for you people I would have been a hollow person from within and wouldn’t have reached so far.”

Keep all the awkwardness, funny and strange feeling aside. Speak out, atleast sometimes. Your words make their lives contented. BEGIN TODAY. Your mom will feel proud and acknowledged for all the efforts and compromises of her life.

Your wife will respect, love you more and feel valued. Remember you aren’t giving the women too much importance by saying so. They wouldn’t start flying sky high with your reciprocation of gratitude. They would feel humbled rather. You are just making them feel complete.

There isn’t any point in appreciating them in front of your friends. It’s only glorifying yourself again that you are appreciating your Wife and Mom. You value them, you want recognition and appreciation for doing this too.

Rather dare to overcome your hesitation-speak to them right in their eyes and say ‘THANK YOU’. You will definitely see tears of joy and contentment in their eyes. You will see them feeling their lifetime efforts justified and acknowledged.

Even God needs you to say ‘THANK YOU’ to keep hearing your wishes and granting them. Don’t expect women to be better than God though, we really need to appreciate them to be doing everything for us unconditionally and without any expectation for self.

– Sucheta Gour

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Life Quotes – My Mom Cooks better than You

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My Mom Cooks better than You

Hey wives!!When a man says “My mom cooked better than you”, AGREE. Because it isn’t that only his mom cooked well, it is also true that your mom also cooked better than you. Whole of that generation cooked well. Previous generation still cooked better. The reason firstly being their experiences in cooking are 30+ years and yours is 3 or 5+ years. So it is very obvious. Experience has made them perfect. There can’t be a comparison or competition possible either.

Secondly, they had more time to prepare everything with lot of patience. They didn’t have to rush to office like you or come back home from a hectic, stressful day like yours. Their life was stress free. They didn’t rely on readymade masalas. They ground them in the grinding stone which gave those masalas and chutneys the aroma and taste which isn’t possible now because we use grinders or packed instant solutions.

The previous generations were further luckier enough to get vegetables grown in their backyard or organically without pollution with less adulteration. That obviously impacted the taste. And finally they loved their children like how you love yours so but obvious. The love added to the taste. Wait for your son to appreciate your cooking. It is natural. There isn’t any offence in it. If you have lived with a certain taste for 20 years it is going to haunt you. Furthermore your husband will love your cooking more compared to your daughter or daughter in law. So that explains.

And men out there just a piece of advice. Standard statements are understandable and acceptable but don’t despise upon your better half making it an irresolvable issue because it is an undebatable point but not an irresolvable issue.

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War with the other Gender or Self?

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War with the other Gender or Self?

Hatredness or being casual about the other gender starts with one love failure – reason might be a rejection or anything. None want to look inside and figure out the mistakes from both ends. Rejection makes the rejected perfect and eligible for sympathy and revenge against the whole of other gender.

Was that someone so important that you consider yourself so unimportant and ruin the essence of true you, good you whom you, your parents, your friends have been proud about. No relations break due to one person. There are ‘n’ numbers of reasons for relations to break. Wasting our time on so many unsuccessful relations, flings or one night stands.

Should we get down to those levels of despising ourselves and our time? Can’t we make ourselves more knowledge or wiser by investing our time in these activities. People waste a min of 30 hours in impressing and convincing someone for a one night stand. Is that 2 hours more important than those 30 hours which could have been productive enough for self growth?

Fun is an inevitable and essential part of life. But is such fun worth it where advancing in our life we hardly would remember the whole episode of these 32 hours. Definitely by these moments wouldn’t be cherished like how we would cherish an excursion with our friend or a class we took with a friend and all the fun in the class. Your choice of person just because he just pretends he loves you, cares about you or you are his need to show off about you or make u spend money on yourself.

We have stopped liking people as a whole personality and liking has reduced to an ego, expression or style. I like her smile, i like his tattoo, I like her dressing sense, I like his bike or everyone is eying on her and I could get her – Are these reasons to fall in love with someone.

That’s the reason relations fade away as someone else has a better tattoo, does better research on how to handle the other gender, dresses better etc. If you like Deepika padukone just because everyone dreams of her, not that she will suit your requirement of a life partner. If someone is rich, intelligent and beautiful not that she will be the perfect fit. We need to know our upbringing, what we have liked in our mother or our culture which we want to find in our wife.

Knowing self is the first thing to know what we look for in our life partner. Why don’t we understand what we like? Definitely she/he should compensate and compliment for what we don’t have or have but at the same time whether we have the acceptance and admiration to accept the superiority or inferiority of the other person as a self decision and respect our own decision throughout our lives.

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