When a couple entrepreneurs run a company – husband and wife are like the heart and brain of the business.
They have to work in synchronization though there are many instances where the opinions differ.
In few of the instances heart is given importance and few more brain is.
The way both these organs are essential for the survival of a human body, both contribute equally, a similar scenario lies on the other front too.
The heart might sound idiotic or illogical or overtly optimistic, the brain might sound too practical, too strategical or overcautious. But both are required to level out things in life.
There isn’t a competition possible between them. And only one of them can win and the same won’t win always. The other has acceptance of losing. There can’t be a pride of having won. There can’t be a grudge on the other. They can’t look down upon each other for any reason.
The common goal of the heart and brain will be the body to win. The body carries the identity of heart and brain like how a company carries the identity of the entrepreneur. Anyone carrying lesser strength doesn’t mean he is going to be redundant or eliminatable.
The rules are so clear and well defined.
Most of the times we see ourselves from other’s point of view. We become conscious; try to modify ourselves to everyone’s liking around. Finally we lose our individuality.
We are influenced by people around and try to be them. And land up not being completely them or retaining our own self too.
Next of the influences are our ideal person be it movie stars or celebrities.
Whatever they act like or behave like we try to introduce those in us.
Of course, we need to adapt to good things around, but should it be like turning out to be a copycat alone???
Getting an idea isn’t an achievement any day. Pursuing, sustaining the idea and implementing it to success with motivation and improvisation are the biggest challenge.
There are lakhs of ideas people get every day. The best of the ideas.
There isn’t a need to feel a halo on our head just because of an idea occurring to your mind.
The journey begins only when the idea takes off for implementation with measurable progress and its share of challenges. An idea can be considered success only when its implementation is achieved with benefits and sustainability for a considerable duration.
Pleasing ourselves has become most important aspect of our life. To accommodate our right or wrong wishes we go to any extent and justify them with all possible things. Be it at the cost of blaming our parents, our Spouse, our Children, our Friends, our Society, God.
We are a coward not to accept that we are responsible for what happened to us. Always finding others to put the blame on.
For instance, I didn’t score in a subject because I was forced by my parent to choose the subject. I can never have a good life with my spouse because she/he is my parent’s choice.
I am forced for infidelity because my spouse doesn’t understand me.
Couldn’t we accept all such decisions of our life because life is about looking forward and making it better than crying on the split milk or mourning on our death again and again?
90% of the Entrepreneurs fail not because they aren’t having a direction but
Because they do not have a right direction.
Because they have plans but the P & L statistics are wrong.
Because there are no risks or challenges forecasted
Because of overconfidence / under confidence and wrong calculations.
Because of confusion and lack of decision making
Because they only cherish success on their minds and not failures.
You should feel you are worthy and contented with a genuine appreciation only when
– People who have stayed with you for years,
– Known your darker and fairer side
Can admire you for your good qualities from the bottom of their heart without any selfless motive.
Any admiration coming from anyone who pass by cannot be always genuine and might be momentary or for some selfish motive.