Anonymity is power.

Anonymity is power. You aren’t held accountable for anything. Your successes aren’t cherished. Your failures aren’t criticized. But, if you are on the wrong path , you might be the greatest threat to others or self too.

-Pratham Lingadalli

People glorify simple life because they can’t afford a luxurious one

90% of the people glorify simple life because they can’t afford a luxurious one. Only when you can afford a luxurious life and still prefer a simple one is when you are known to be humble.

-Sucheta Gour

Words are just words – baseless and empty.

Emotions and words are deeply connected. Without emotions, words do not mean much. Words are just words – baseless and empty. The conviction with which they are carried out gives them strength and meaning.

-Pratham Lingadalli

Getting independent to an extent of not needing any relation is creating all the confusion and trauma in relationships.

We have people in our lives because we need them – Emotionally, Socially, Financially and Physically. Getting independent to an extent of not needing any relation is creating all the confusion and trauma in relationships. So nourish the dependencies also in a relationship.Then they will add the essence to your lives. Else you will start chasing unwanted people with unknown relationship goals.

-Sucheta Gour

How it could have been is easy to think of than helping someone in creating how it has to be

When you approach anyone with a problem asking What to do? No one has an answer.
All the answers pop up only when it is done. How it could have been is easy to think of
than helping someone in creating how it has to be.

-Sucheta Gour

Is grief bigger than life? Will grief bring positivity?

Is grief bigger than life? It can never be.
Is grief better than moving on?
Moving out of grief is progress. Staying in grief is stagnance.
Will grief bring positivity?
Grief will bring in sympathy which will keep you further engrossed in grief.
A negative emotion can only drown you to depression.
Stay away from sympathy.
Don’t grieve anything. Any person or instance can’t be bigger than life. So move on towards happiness and people who will fill positivity in your life.

-Sucheta Gour

No one is perfect. Your awareness and analysis on others is only required to be prepared for the degree of hurt and harm.

It’s very important to know people around you, their positives and negatives too. But it is not necessary to be judgemental about them and show it in action. It is neither required to act on every thought and action of theirs.

No one is perfect. Your awareness and analysis on others is only required to be prepared for the degree of hurt and harm they can cause you in the most adverse situation. There on you build better immunity to emotional harm.

-Sucheta Gour

Ailments and illness needs to be feared

Death need not be feared. It is predestined. Ailments and illness needs to be feared. Because pain and dependency cannot be contained by any person however loved and cared by others.

-Sucheta Gour

No one can be sympathized for laziness and poor knowledge.

No one can be sympathized for laziness and poor knowledge.
Even if there is sympathy, the losses can’t be avoided. So its very much essential to grow smart and develop better knowledge and view of different aspects over time.
Learning should be possible any day. Life needs never ending upgradation, else you have to regret some day, sooner or later.

-Sucheta Gour

Every boyfriend or girlfriend is perfect and every husband or wife is imperfect.

Every boyfriend or girlfriend is perfect and every husband or wife is imperfect.

Reasons
1) Expectations are nill in a courtship.Expectations are sky high in a marriage.
2) You dont stay together.You have that breathing space away from the other for yourself.
3) Fear of losing the other is higher.Fear of losing the other is nil.


4) The attempt to impress and being impressed is on.You know the other like the back of your hand.

-Sucheta Gour