Advising is a trend today.
Whose advise to consider?
Three category of people
One who cares for you.
The first category would be those who care for you but you should not implement all of it but hear them out to respect their concern for you.
Second category who have not conquered failures with success
And third category who are succesful after all the trials and failures
The best of the three whose advices need to bought are the third category who have emerged succesful and are willing to share their sincere advises.
We complicate our lives with 2000 rights and 10 wrongs. Whereas there are only 2 to 3 right and 2 to 3 wrongs.
Since we are chameleons who change and want to adapt to anything around us for only and only our benefit and pleasure, everything that takes us to our benefits and selfish motives are right according to us.
For a change we need to understand that for the sake of justifying ourselves, wrong cannot become right. And secondly who gets to decide, the right and wrong? – Our conscience alone- only if we keep it alive.
It’s only because our comparisons are always calculated between what we were and what we are.
Our yardstick to measure what we have achieved or how successful we are is always with the past. We were not wise 2 yrs back or when we started our career.
Today we are wise and have added so many skills to our selves. We feel proud of our development. Definitely, you got to feel good about the journey and improvisation.
But the hunger to reach where we have to be at those phases of life should be revisited often. This approach expedites our journey.
Our comparison should never be with what we were and what we are. Rather, it should be with what we are, and what we should or we could have been at any point of time in life.
People live life like a punishment. Whereas, life is always a blessing. We err, we succeed, and we perceive right or wrong things. We can see, hear, think, and speak. Whereas, none of the other living beings can do all these things.
We are strong, weak, happy, and sad. Sometimes we are ignorant, or enjoy our mistakes and sometimes we take pain in walking the right path.
We come across right, wrong, good, bad people. We are wrong, we are right. We learn, unlearn, and forget what we learn, relearn what we require. But all these are ways of life.
A journey unavoidable. We are all alone through all this. We and our thought process which influence our state of mind. We feel we have our near and dear ones along with us. But nothing and no one can come in the way of our interactions with any of the above.
We and our thought process decide how we will face all these. So, why blame life? Life as a human being is the most precious gift of God.