Feed your goals with frustrations and pain. Contentment has never moved anyone even an inch ahead.

Feed your goals with frustrations and pain. Contentment has never moved anyone even an inch ahead.

-Sucheta Gour

Standard ways of work have become complicated, exhaustive processes. The way of living , working need courses today.

The standard ways of work have become complicated, exhaustive processes. The way of living , working need courses today. 

Common sense itself is converted into elaborative process. It is monitored by multiple levels of people too. Corporates are working towards getting people educated,  adhered to these processes so that eventually they can eliminate people gradually by replacing them with automation and IOT.

Data analysis is also one of the mediums to accelerate this process. All the surveys, permutations, combinations, statistical information, will be manually analysed and in future this data will go as a feed to automate analyse any system , department, process and structure. Human beings will be required but to do meagre jobs or extensively brainy jobs like monitor or create the mechanism of automation.

All of these will reduce many more opportunities of people who have been operating in process based industries or careers.

We human beings are clearly conveying one thing strongly to each other ‘Shape up or ship out’, ‘Evolve or perish’ This is what nature has been doing for millions of years. We came to terms with it finally after COVID.

All sympathies for each other now are more superficial. Its more of save myself first and then think of others. This approach existed earlier too but predominantly visible more louder now.

Sucheta Gour

Dont feel frustrated with people’s meagre thought process.

Dont feel frustrated with people’s meagre thought process.Feel elevated with your maturity.

-Sucheta Gour

Don’t ever expect a sorry from the person who hurts you.

Don’t ever expect a sorry from the person who hurts you. Forget the wounds faster. And scars dont hurt. They just remind you of the lessons learnt passing by. You should’nt make the person who hurt you decide when and whether to heal you. Because, if the one who hurt you did’nt think while hurting you, he wouldnt bother to heal you either..

-Sucheta Gour

Change, a great topic. How much to change? Change for the trend or change to be unique?

Change, a great topic. Change is inevitable. World is changing. You will perish if you dont change. How much to change? Change for good or bad? Change for the trend or change to be unique?
Change to be accepted or to be successful?
So many questions associated with change and very less clarity on what is to be done.
I need to change to look cool, to behave cool, fashionable, to be with the world and not left behind. Or I need to change to learn more, increase my potential, be happy, spread positivity, look confident or
I need to change because my next generations feel I’m outdated or because I need to adapt to technology.


I want to belong with my friends, I want to be accepted by them. Or I want to pick only the right things to change into something Im going be proud of irrespective of others’ Non-acceptance.


Not getting carried away or not being biased by anyone is the need of the hour for anyone to have a unique and non regrettable approach.
Change can be a boon or bane based on the approach , action derived and  results expected out of it.

-Sucheta Gour

“Working towards creating our own success was easiest than working towards creating path for other’s success.”

“Working towards creating our own success was easiest than working towards creating path for other’s success.”
As a friend , as a parent, as a wife, at one point of time in life, you definitely feel so.
But the pleasure in witnessing the success of your near and dear ones also is immeasurable.
Everyone got to make their choices.
But a wiser choice is keeping your own success along with other’s success as your priority.
Because at the end of your life, when you retrospect , you are left only with yourself.

-Sucheta Gour

Don’t recognise efforts, recognise results

Don’t recognise efforts, recognise results. Because when you recognise efforts, the focus towards results gets diluted.

-Sucheta Gour

Lord Ganesha comes with lot of positivity every year.

Lord Ganesha comes with lot of positivity every year. Wish we keep that energy, positivity, hope and happiness when he leaves back too.Bcoz never he leaves us.its always we who send him off. We should stop treating Ganesha as a guest who stays a while at our home and keep him in our hearts throughout with the same energy and positivity.We will win most of the life’s battle

Sucheta Gour

” Let your left hand not know the help your right hand did. Help secretly. “

There used to be an era when people said, ” Let your left hand not know the help your right hand did. Help secretly. ” Today, is an era, where the one who receives help expects and considers that no one should know that they received help. Everyone wants to portray that I have never received help. I’m self made.
What a shift in thought process?

Sucheta Gour

We hear people justifying that do not stay where you do not belong. You quit from there.

We hear people justifying that do not stay where you do not belong. You quit from there. Actually you do well with your next assignment because you feel you have to prove to the people who made an opinion about you in the previous assignment. You want to prove to self too. So you deliberately do better and justify to yourself that you did not belong to the place from where you quit. There is no place where you belong too.They exist only on our minds.

-Sucheta Gour