Feed your goals with frustrations and pain. Contentment has never moved anyone even an inch ahead.

Feed your goals with frustrations and pain. Contentment has never moved anyone even an inch ahead.

-Sucheta Gour

Difference between Stress and Tiredness.

Difference between Stress and Tiredness.

Stress
During the process of doing something
When fear haunts you about – being unsuccessful in some task or not completing the task on time.
When you fear the result of unacceptance about your action or thought process.
When you unnecessarily worry about things not in your control.
When you worry and not think.

Tiredness
After completion of doing something or at the fag end of it.
When you have given 100% to the task and contented with your efforts leaving the results to God.
When you are exhausted after giving 1000% towards precaution of  an ugly outcome.
When you can hit the bed and get into deep sleep.
When you get exhausted thinking.

Chose tiredness over stress.
Stress is a complicated word which did not exist before a decade or so. Tiredness existed from ever since man was born. Tiredness did not cause psychological disorders or weakness of mind or infunite worries.
Stress never solved any problem.

Our previous generations worked more rigorously, were more efficient in handling life’s problems, Carried better memory, handled the families well and held them closer inspite of too many people to take care of. They never made anything so complicated. For our generations going to office also is stressful. We never enjoy life as is. We always want glorification in everything. We need vacations, weekend hangouts, pubs, long drives and still we arent able to win over stress. Our previous generations enjoyed a contented life without these luxuries too.

-Sucheta Gour

You find convincing one person is easier than convincing too many under you and the effort it takes to execute is also higher.

In any hierarchy, people are more keen on convincing the higher ups why it isn’t possible. Wish even half of these efforts would go into convincing the people below them to execute the activity. And this isn’t a deliberate planned attempt at the first go. It is a gradually evolved thought as you find convincing one person is easier than convincing too many under you and the effort it takes to execute is also higher. So convincing the higher ups might sound to be the easiest to resort to.

-Sucheta Gour

Standard ways of work have become complicated, exhaustive processes. The way of living , working need courses today.

The standard ways of work have become complicated, exhaustive processes. The way of living , working need courses today. 

Common sense itself is converted into elaborative process. It is monitored by multiple levels of people too. Corporates are working towards getting people educated,  adhered to these processes so that eventually they can eliminate people gradually by replacing them with automation and IOT.

Data analysis is also one of the mediums to accelerate this process. All the surveys, permutations, combinations, statistical information, will be manually analysed and in future this data will go as a feed to automate analyse any system , department, process and structure. Human beings will be required but to do meagre jobs or extensively brainy jobs like monitor or create the mechanism of automation.

All of these will reduce many more opportunities of people who have been operating in process based industries or careers.

We human beings are clearly conveying one thing strongly to each other ‘Shape up or ship out’, ‘Evolve or perish’ This is what nature has been doing for millions of years. We came to terms with it finally after COVID.

All sympathies for each other now are more superficial. Its more of save myself first and then think of others. This approach existed earlier too but predominantly visible more louder now.

Sucheta Gour

Dont feel frustrated with people’s meagre thought process.

Dont feel frustrated with people’s meagre thought process.Feel elevated with your maturity.

-Sucheta Gour

Every person can be read in volumes

Every person can be read in volumes. Perhaps, very less of us make an attempt to read them without being judgemental or getting involved. That’s how we turn out to be biased.

-Sucheta Gour

Making a choice between the right and more right.

Making a choice between the right and more right.
Our wishes and our responsibilities
Our fancies and our ethics
Our luxury and our necessity
Sacrifices and Comfort
Our goals and your near or dear ones happiness
Our choices take us to our destination.
What do we feel after reaching there?
Regret or sense of acievement?
Pride or lowliness?
Principled or Despicable?
Looking back is always a risk.
Only your soul’s contentment can make you feel and keep lighter. Else you are unquenchable.

-Sucheta Gour

Announce your failures.

Announce your failures.Humiliation serves better motivation if you are a strong personality.But, at the same time, choose your audience too. They should be your equals and not subordinates.

-Sucheta Gour

Don’t ever expect a sorry from the person who hurts you.

Don’t ever expect a sorry from the person who hurts you. Forget the wounds faster. And scars dont hurt. They just remind you of the lessons learnt passing by. You should’nt make the person who hurt you decide when and whether to heal you. Because, if the one who hurt you did’nt think while hurting you, he wouldnt bother to heal you either..

-Sucheta Gour

The worries of today’s generations

The worries of today’s generations
I dont have a girl friend.
I dont have luxuries.
I dont have a car.
My parents aren’t rich.
How will I earn money?
I dont have branded clothes.
How to seek attention and be popular without sacrifices?
How to have a better style, swag and fashion sense?
How I look outward is more important than how I look from within.
When the focus is so much diverted to materialistic things, how will the knowledge advance and will they ever understand the importance of giving.


Eventually, there will be only a bunch of people who will focus on giving back to the society, discipline and mankind. Majority of the population from this generation focuses on receiving. And the receiving might be any way – wealth, luxuries, career growth, love, attention, success or respect. The world only revolves around themselves. Me, My life, My happiness, My ego, My word, My self respect.
No one is keen on creating a better world. Everyone has created their own world within the actual world and limited themselves to it. Inclusive thinking is a myth.


There has to be lot of brain storming and reiteration on how we want the world to look like. Else there will be such pandemic, habitat and biodiversity loss, water and food scarcity, gender inequality, poverty which will occur to reset out thought process. The  primary focus should be,  to have a  bettter world for our future generations.

-Sucheta Gour