If ego could fetch money, respect and harmony in relationships, their would be schools to teach and finetune it.

If ego could fetch money, respect and harmony in relationships, their would be schools to teach and finetune it.

Sucheta Gour

People management skills need a makeover every 5 years.

People management skills need a makeover every 5 years. However, the fundamentals remain the same. The superficial picture only needs to change The crisis begins when fundamentals are also being changed. Than developing skills of people management in leaders, we are expecting process to handle people and one fine day we realise, the same process has created redundancy of people. So when will the ‘U’ turn start? After all ‘A to Z’ process plans are over and then we will go back to have a new start or somewhere midway, there can be enlightenment expected?
Covid taught us the value of health and money in the best possible way. So here we are starting afresh with Yoga, Ayurveda and Hindu traditions. Waiting for ‘Covid with a different nomeneclature ‘ for the rest of the lessons?

Sucheta Gour

Keep it simple – if the woman doesnt glorify her pride unnecessarily and the man doesnt despise upon her on being successful just to defend his ego- things are always sorted.

Keep it simple – if the woman doesnt glorify her pride unnecessarily and the man doesnt despise upon her on being successful just to defend his ego- things are always sorted.
A man and a woman are called two wheels of a cart in a marriage – thats a old story. However the balance is still very essential. But, today they are two wheels independent of each other and in race. Both need to speeden up to achieve success individually as well as in synchronization so that one of them doesnt feel inferior and despise upon the other at any given point of time. If one of them is left behind, he/she goes into depression and looks for wrong means and wrong people to keep her/his self confidence intact and morale boosted.
Additionally, feeling happy for the other partner is a very important aspect. Feeling contented is essential. It isnt always possible that both are successful at the same time in the same aspect. Success has different yardsticks in different areas. Financial, Career, Knowledge, Happiness- success can be defined by anything.
What matters to an individual himself should decide his level of success. A house wife is always successful so is a working woman. A man of high repute, financially sound is successful as well as a middle class man with average ambition and family goals.
Respect each other as a spouse or partner for whatever they are but do not forget to motivate them to aim big.

Sucheta Gour

Anomalies of nature

Anomalies of nature

There are many such people who make their very existence felt like anomaly of nature -not because there is something wrong with their creation but the way they have transformed themselves into. Its every person’s responsibility to respect the efforts of God in creating him and the expectations built around. Living upto those expectations becomes a basic responsibility.
Positive, Hardworking, Respectful and vice versa, Good natured and contended are the key to a justified living.

-Sucheta Gour

Happy National Girl child day!

Happy National Girl child day!
Every girl child in a modern, progressive society and advanced culture is valued by the family. She is educated, given freedom to make choices, take her decisions, treated like a princess and given a career of her choice, wedded in a home with a hope of infinite happiness and prosperity.
Adverse situations are created.
The society brings her many levels down as soon as she is out of her maternal home OR
She makes disadvantages of her freedom, converts her lifestyle to self diminishment. Freedom to be unruly also adds on.

Every girl child in a conservative society is still considered a liability and eliminated from the family to the earliest by getting her married. Her lifestyle is filled with hardwork, restrictions on everything and anything, zero freedom, zero dreams and zero expectations from life. What would such a life mean? A breathing deadbody.
So, how should we raise our girl children? What should they grow up to be?
What is the meaning of giving a balanced approach to life?
How much of a transformation is expected from the society?

Sucheta Gour

Learn the lesson. True or not. Dont bother.

Learn the lesson. True or not. Dont bother.

Everyone wants to have contradicting thoughts, exhaustive arguments about the existence of Bhaagwat, Rama, Krishna, Ramayana, Mahabharata, God’s presence around us etc., The questions go on to infinity.
One simple thing we all fail to understand is, its ok to not believe, just consider it unrealistic stories and learn the lessons from these stories to apply and lead a better life, just the way we read moral stories with imaginary characters and scenarios. Wisdom should be invited, comprehended and implemented from all means and directions for a succesful life.

Sucheta Gour

“There are no seven wonders of the world in the eyes of a child. There are seven million.”

While I was on the verge of growing up, I came across Walt Streigtiff’s statement “There are no seven wonders of the world in the eyes of a child. There are seven million.”
and all my motivation to grow up came crashing down. And now after being called grown up, I’m still reluctant to actually come out of my child zone because my journey of exploring the wonders is not over yet. Everything I come across creates inquisitiveness in me like a child. Happy to remain a child for the rest of my life.
How about you?

Sucheta Gour

Idealistc living or statements? What is easier to choose?

Idealistc living or statements? What is easier to choose?
It is easier to speak and difficult to live.
What you speak helps people build an opinion about you instantly.
What your actions are make you secure your place in people’s hearts permanently.

Sucheta Gour

Narcissism- the jewel that adorns today’s youth?

Narcissism- the jewel that adorns today’s youth?
Is it over confidence or inferiority?
What are they trying to mask up with?
They are superior or want to portray superiority?
A skill to survive or surviving shortfalls?
I know it all or I pretend to know it all?
I’m right or dare not be wronged?
Your thoughts plz…

Sucheta Gour

Progress or unruly, uncontrolled life? Social drinking TO social drugs how soon is the youth progressing?

Progress or unruly, uncontrolled life?
Social drinking TO social drugs how soon is the youth progressing?
Reasons are influences from celebrity idols, western culture, zeal for an adventurous life and so called portrayal of belonging to  the classy category of the society.
Love affair TO Relationship for convenience – modernization in thought process or getting into meaningless, confused relations is the definition of modern life?
Freedom to marry the person you love TO Self doubt on ability to committ ?  Why did decision making get so tough?
Why did the demarcation between right and wrong blur out?
Technology, exposure to newer cultures, social media and so called wisdom cleared the mist or created a fog?

Sucheta Gour