There are three things people will have skill issues, will issues or too lazy to do things. Definitely skill issues can be addressed will issues and laziness are the toughest ones to handle for any manager but a good manager would handle them too.
Will issue for many reasons like,
I don’t know the skill gap and I don’t want to know or bridge the gap either as that shows my shortfall and make me feel inferior.
My Company doesn’t recognise me why should I work more.
I have so much to deal with in my personal lives. I am executing my job with the best possible efforts. My Manager should be happy that at least I’m coming to office and not taking leaves.
If I do more, I will be asked to do the most and expectations will be endless.
Oh I’m doing so much let others do.
Let me find someone who can do and I will take the credit of it.
Let me pass on to a Junior who will have to do it to make me his Senior happy.
Let me do it later when it is really required.
Let me behave ignorant else I will have to do it.
Let me throw some impressive bunch of words so that words will satisfy my manager.
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I’m a woman of ambition. I want to reach out to stars and win over the world.At the same time I haven’t forgotten my glorified identity of being a mother or wife which is close to my heart.I want to be successful on both the fronts .God has created me with those multi tasking skills physically and mentally as well.
Hey people! support me, be by my side not with words alone actions as well.End of the day I’m a human being as well.I also do mistakes though I am aiming at perfection.I don’t deserve to be less counted upon.Appreciate my strengths, compensate for my weakness.Don’t make me feel guilty for not having cooked for few days or not having got a promotion at job.I’m trying my best. Encourage me by lending a helping hand.
I’m not here to compete with my spouse, neither I want to prove my superiority to the other gender.I’m not here to prove anyone wrong either.Do not declare my efforts and struggle a gender war.I struggle, work hard to feel confident and worthy of being created.I work towards making myself independent like any other creation of God.
Like any other creation with limitations , I also understand the limitation of my body and mind. l respect them as those are induced by God for me to coexist with the other gender and society.I request the society and my family to help me reinvent myself and prepare myself for the worst scenarios life might offer.I want to fly but stay rooted.
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Hatredness or being casual about the other gender starts with one love failure – reason might be a rejection or anything. None want to look inside and figure out the mistakes from both ends. Rejection makes the rejected perfect and eligible for sympathy and revenge against the whole of other gender.
Was that someone so important that you consider yourself so unimportant and ruin the essence of true you, good you whom you, your parents, your friends have been proud about. No relations break due to one person. There are ‘n’ numbers of reasons for relations to break. Wasting our time on so many unsuccessful relations, flings or one night stands.
Should we get down to those levels of despising ourselves and our time? Can’t we make ourselves more knowledge or wiser by investing our time in these activities. People waste a min of 30 hours in impressing and convincing someone for a one night stand. Is that 2 hours more important than those 30 hours which could have been productive enough for self growth?
Fun is an inevitable and essential part of life. But is such fun worth it where advancing in our life we hardly would remember the whole episode of these 32 hours. Definitely by these moments wouldn’t be cherished like how we would cherish an excursion with our friend or a class we took with a friend and all the fun in the class. Your choice of person just because he just pretends he loves you, cares about you or you are his need to show off about you or make u spend money on yourself.
We have stopped liking people as a whole personality and liking has reduced to an ego, expression or style. I like her smile, i like his tattoo, I like her dressing sense, I like his bike or everyone is eying on her and I could get her – Are these reasons to fall in love with someone.
That’s the reason relations fade away as someone else has a better tattoo, does better research on how to handle the other gender, dresses better etc. If you like Deepika padukone just because everyone dreams of her, not that she will suit your requirement of a life partner. If someone is rich, intelligent and beautiful not that she will be the perfect fit. We need to know our upbringing, what we have liked in our mother or our culture which we want to find in our wife.
Knowing self is the first thing to know what we look for in our life partner. Why don’t we understand what we like? Definitely she/he should compensate and compliment for what we don’t have or have but at the same time whether we have the acceptance and admiration to accept the superiority or inferiority of the other person as a self decision and respect our own decision throughout our lives.
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Most of the performance and growth issues are due to will issues and ignorance about the same. Skill can be built will cannot be created.It needs to be self created.So rarely external influences matter.
Reasons for our will issues to be ruining us
– We don’t want to accept that we have a will issue we want to justify our will issue with an undeserving and incorrect sympathy from others.
– We blame everyone other than identifying the will issue. Example -we blame the Manager or Company or the Process or Colleague for the will issue.
– We don’t want to see beyond a circle of limitation which we have imposed around ourselves and our thought process, so we frame it as an impossible activity.
: Our family commitments n emotions which needs to be playing as our strengths, we convert them to be our weakness which adds on to be one more point for promoting and justifying our will issue.
we want to cling on to things pleasing us or easier to keep bare motives high of having achieved something which is actually a basic activity or a regular need which anyone would perform to meet the bare minimum expectation to execute the activity.
But who suffers majorly at the end of d day. Isn’t it ourselves?
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Yes . I’m a Woman of Strength. I’m capable of standing for myself any day. I m a Cinderella and I don’t need a Prince Charming.
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