Automate their life if you want to help some one or if someone really matters to you.They shouldn’t need you anytime. That’s the best way of doing good to anyone. If you don’t automate, they will need you always. And that would be the most selfish gesture in helping someone. Eventually, inspite your efforts, you will not have achieved a sustained, desired outcome. And all your efforts in improving someone will go waste.
The same applies in raising our children too.
Dont build a path for them, build them to walk any path they chose to.
It also applies to your spouse.Life is so uncertain. Reduce their dependencies on you.
Bind your spouse by love not by creating a dependency and need for everything they will require to lead a comfortable and dignified life.
Fear is the most powerful weapon against our shortcomings. Encash on your fear.
Living in fear, living in preparation or living in ignorance?
What should we prefer?
Fear should induce more of preparation and drive away ignorance, fear should not adopt ignorance. Being cautious is always good.
When you fear failure, you work towards success.
When you fear losing a person, you work towards maintaining the relation.
When you fear losing your respect, you work towards keeping your character and personality intact.
So how can fear be a negative factor.
Only precaution to be taken is, to not make your fear lead you into depression ending in giving up.
To learn from our Army……
Unity in diversity
Sacrifices to the extent of infinity
Country over life
Toughness in the toughest terrains
These soldiers have emerged from all kind of societies and class of our country and have leveled up to one platform with almost same standards in all the above characteristics.
Can we learn atleast 10% and implement 5%.
Life will be well lived.
We cut our throat and complain of bleeding to death. Who and why should anyone sympathize us?
We have problems-
In being honest,
In being flexible,
In being grateful for what we have,
In focusing on what we want,
In addressing our greed,
In upgrading our knowledge and applying it.
And still we crave for success and complain about what we dont have.
Time to grow up or time to grow wise?
There can be ‘n’ number of reasons for failure, but only one reason for success. Intelligent ones chase that one reason. Rest are chasing the ‘n’ number of reasons to justify their incapabilities.
Want to pray for your fortune or wish for other’s ruins? It will take the same amount of your time, efforts and dedication. Additionally, it will cost you, your peace of mind too.
Your actions are always judged. The people responsible for your actions are always behind the scenes. Always put up a good show. Manage your actions for your good and never be a puppet of other’s show.
When you can describe others thoughts about you in black n white, you are the most unpleasant, presumptuous person..
When you can colour them with beautiful colours, you are a fool or the best person.
Make your choices.
Fake it before you make it. If you fake others thoughts to be good towards you in words before them, they are forced to maintain their dignity and keep themselves the way you’ve painted their thoughts about you.
Change people’s thought process.Worth a try, but, as an audience, who isn’t actually affected by the outcome.
Success doesn’t carve your personality, failure does.
A person’s personality shows up while handling failures.
Trials show your strength.
How you deal with people when you fail shows your maturity levels.
Failures drive you.
Be thankful to failures. They spark the fire in you.
It is said, “Don’t try to please everyone, you will fail”. I say, try to please everyone. You will be a better you from what you were yesterday. The attempt is worth it. But don’t be disheartened with the notion people carry about you after all done to please them. If in case you are admired, you’ve got a bonus.