Live without fearing death and die without the love for living. Embrace both with love.

Live without fearing death and die without the love for living. Embrace both with love.

-Sucheta Gour

Words or actions?

Words or actions?
Traditionally we have been hearing that actions matter more than words.But we have been fooled and manipulated because 99% of the times we believed in words.
Which ones we generally chose?
We always choose words to begin with , because  actions took longer time to be executed and the impact to be visible.
There is a whole vocabulary to convey ‘n’ number of feelings.
There is hardly any vocabulary for actions though visibility is higher.
Words appeal more than actions and communicate instantly. So general tendencies are to get carried away with words.They influence more than actions in the first go.
This has been a major reason why so many get cheated, fooled and manipulated.


Infinite experiences and still we are struggling to chose between both.
There are many relations which have been surviving on nothing but words, deals cracked only on words, and hopes raised with words, trust built only on words.
I wish actions were also gauged.And people had the patience to execute actions and expect reciprocation. On the other patience to witness the action and further build the trust.

Sucheta Gour

Copied ideas are more valued than original ideas. Because they have been repeated enough times to get sunk into peoples’ minds.

Copied ideas are more valued than original ideas. Because they have been repeated enough times to get sunk into peoples’ minds.

Sucheta Gour

You find convincing one person is easier than convincing too many under you and the effort it takes to execute is also higher.

In any hierarchy, people are more keen on convincing the higher ups why it isn’t possible. Wish even half of these efforts would go into convincing the people below them to execute the activity. And this isn’t a deliberate planned attempt at the first go. It is a gradually evolved thought as you find convincing one person is easier than convincing too many under you and the effort it takes to execute is also higher. So convincing the higher ups might sound to be the easiest to resort to.

-Sucheta Gour

What is the benefit for Buyer & Seller?

A buyer doesn’t count on what is the benefit he got out of a service or product he bought. He is more bothered about how much is the seller’s benefit?

-Sucheta Gour

Standard ways of work have become complicated, exhaustive processes. The way of living , working need courses today.

The standard ways of work have become complicated, exhaustive processes. The way of living , working need courses today. 

Common sense itself is converted into elaborative process. It is monitored by multiple levels of people too. Corporates are working towards getting people educated,  adhered to these processes so that eventually they can eliminate people gradually by replacing them with automation and IOT.

Data analysis is also one of the mediums to accelerate this process. All the surveys, permutations, combinations, statistical information, will be manually analysed and in future this data will go as a feed to automate analyse any system , department, process and structure. Human beings will be required but to do meagre jobs or extensively brainy jobs like monitor or create the mechanism of automation.

All of these will reduce many more opportunities of people who have been operating in process based industries or careers.

We human beings are clearly conveying one thing strongly to each other ‘Shape up or ship out’, ‘Evolve or perish’ This is what nature has been doing for millions of years. We came to terms with it finally after COVID.

All sympathies for each other now are more superficial. Its more of save myself first and then think of others. This approach existed earlier too but predominantly visible more louder now.

Sucheta Gour

Today’s trend…..Every product is manufactured with a shortfall in durability for the reason of repeat business.

Today’s trend…..Every product is manufactured with a shortfall in durability for the reason of repeat business.

-Sucheta Gour

Hey Moms and Dads! Teach each other and learn how to treat and speak to each other.

Hey Moms and Dads! Teach each other and learn how to treat and speak to each other. Your children will follow the same. Respect in words and action from your child is the reflection of your own actions and words towards each other.

-Sucheta Gour

Are Men doing enough to protect Women? who created ths bias?

All men need to carry only one ethical social responsibility towards women.Create a world where their daughters, wives and sisters will be safe. The actual problem is the division  between their dear ones and others in their mind. The belief that I will keep my world protected and cast an evil eye on other’s world. As the saying goes, “What goes around has to come around”, so , none of the women turn out to be safe.Your daughter, wife is someone else’s prey. Other’s daughter, wife are prey to you.

We are still in the animal thought process. We dont stand for or with a woman insulted, humiliated, despised, mis-behaved because the fire hasn’t reached our homes yet. We are waiting for it to reach by adding fuel by promoting this culture. We are fine to pass comment, degrade as a woman or a man on another woman who is a colleague, boss. Because we see competition for self in her or our ego being hurt. Our egoes are hurt on a woman arguing and not when a man argues. So, who created ths bias? We are envious when we have a competitor, male or female but we attack the gender perpective when women, why? We complain about a woman’s commitments back home. We never speak about the man who doesn’t help her in her chores.

There are good and bad people in both genders. We can’t term anyone bad just because of the gender. Agreed 1000%. Then why are we trying to protect our daughters, wives more than our sons or husbands? Dont we trust our own kind? 

And I appreciate all those men who say I’m not this character described above. Done.
But, being a silent audience watching this all around even with our closest relatives, friends being on the attacker or tale bearer side. Aren’t we being passive ?

-Sucheta Gour

Keeping emotions aside is the most important thing to do if you want to improve someone.

Keeping emotions aside is the most important thing to do if you want to improve someone. Else you are tackled by the one whom you want to improve. Eventually, your purpose isn’t served.

-Sucheta Gour