Unity in diversity Sacrifices to the extent of infinity Hardwork Commitment Integrity Discipline Leadership Obedience Focus Country over life Motivation Team work Toughness in the toughest terrains
These soldiers have emerged from all kind of societies and class of our country and have leveled up to one platform with almost same standards in all the above characteristics. Can we learn atleast 10% and implement 5%. Life will be well lived.
There are certain things which no one can teach – humbless, humility, integrity and modesty. These are imbibed in your personality with time and how you perceive things and situations. These are developed based on • What has been your culture while growing up? • What influences you matured with? • Whom you idolise ? • How strong a personality you are? • What you aim for yourself as a human being? • How you want to be treated?
• No one gets to live a perfect life, a perfect relation. • Desire is the cause of misery. • Be happy with your lives. • Expectations ruin relations.
80% of Indian women have taken these statements so seriously that they eventually have landed up in a compromise of highest level with their lives. They’ve sacrificed themselves in the name of integrity, responsibility, family dignity, commitment and society. Their confidence levels are so low that, their expectations have reduced to food, shelter, clothing and a man’s protection in the society. They dont know how normal relations and a happy life would be. Their identities are either as a wife, mother or daughter. They dont exist as human beings in the first place with emotions and individual thoughts or ideologies. Their cant be a differentiation between a machine and them.
If they object or try to correct or keep expectations, they are treated like anti-social elements of the society or revolutionists. Wishing their own happiness, thinking of having their wish list also is beyond their imaginations. Whereas on the other hand, Men can have expectations from their wives throughout their lives. Women have to be instrumental in every way to satisfy his wish list either directly or indirectly. And inspite of her contribution in the man’s success, she is not credited with even due respect for her existence on the earth. This is where we stand as a society. India is an agricultural and labour force – focus country. And this is how, women are placed in both these areas.
I fail to understand why a dog or donkey is most of the times used as a synonym for wrong , ugly and bad qualities in humans. If humans could ever reach the standards set by these animals in trust, love, loyalty, discipline, integrity and hardwork, the world would have used humans as synonyms for all these traits.
We still say ‘ Work like a donkey’ or ‘As faithful as a dog’. And these animals do all this acknowledging only the food and shelter given to them. Any human to do the same would definitely expect a fortune in return or never ending appreciation. So do we really belong to the superior species?