Who is more important? Friends and pampering people or Enemies, Strict mentors and Practical people?

People who are good to you dont build you. They aren’t the ones who drive you to your success. They only offer moral support to you when you are low which is very important but not the major cause of your success.
Because no one can walk along with you 24/7, 365 days of the year throughout your lives.

People who despise upon you, underestimate you, are dissatisfied with you, taunt you, try hard to pull you down, look down upon your potentials and capabilities, envy you, throw challenges at you, expect perfection from you every second, are the ones who contribute to your success and make you strong in your journey. They are the ones who cause adrenaline rush, the will to prove to them of your will. We come across such people 24/7, 365 days of the year throughout our lives. They haunt us. Only thing is we need to understand and appreciate the value addition they do to our lives. And compete our own self and others to prove our worth to them.

So who is more important?
Friends and pampering people or Enemies, Strict mentors and Practical people?

-Sucheta Gour