House wife & Working woman what will they prioritize first family or herself?

House wife
By default every house-wife is her last priority. Family comes above herself
the reason for she being a perfect mother and wife. And the family gives instances of a working woman despising her selflessness. She is different only in one way. She made her choices to prioritize others above herself.  She never lacked skill but the will to prioritize herself. She worked relentlessly for her family.
If she starts prioritizing only herself,0 the balance in the family is lost.So finally should she prioritize herself or should the family prioritize her?

Working woman
She has to balance either ways. Prioritize herself and take care of family too. But she can expect. She has her space.She is contented with the success, appreciation and money. She possess confidence and attitude too. But she has different set of challenges. She has too many fronts to manage. She is always guilty about falling short in one of her roles at any given point of time.
However both chase perfection in every role of theirs and mostly get disappointed by the reciprocation she gets in return.But never gives up on herself or people.
Hats off to the woman in your lives.

-Sucheta Gour