Husbands are over protective not because they do not trust you, but because they dont trust the world outside.

Husbands are over protective not because they do not trust you, but because they dont trust the world outside. They know their kind from the negative side, as well as the society. They end up putting guidelines to you or stalking you all the while because they feel you are too innnocent and can be easily manipulated. The only problem is when most of them do not stand by you and pass derrogatory comments on you because they do not know how to support you with the right words or, how to reveal about the negative kind in their gender.
Wives are never satisfied by you not because they expect you to be the best for them but because they do not want their husbands to be looked down upon by anyone on the earth for anything. They can’t accept negative opinion about their husband. They keep complaining about the 0 acceptance husbands have when the advice is from a wife .The only problem is they turn out to be a nagging personality not knowing how to position themself in their husband’s ego and motivation.
However should any of them be termed wrong for their intentions. No.
But definetely, most of them need to be termed wrong for their approach in explaining the intent.
Learn the skill of communicating the intent.

-Sucheta Gour