By Someonewise 
Relations do not affect you, if you do not allow them to.We blame others for hurting us. Do we realise, who is impacting us more? Other’s actions or our own analysis of those actions?
Stay close to God and self. No one can hurt you.Believe and understand that everyone have their own reasons, motives, benefits in hurting you. Do not get into the analysis of right or wrong of other’s actions. It’s assured that your being hurt doesnt change them. Their character, personality, thought process or actions need major change which isn’t your agenda of life. Neither it can happen over few days or months. And at times their actions might not be intentional too. So leave people with their thoughts and actions. Justify only yourself to you. Be hurt only when you are wrong. When your actions have hurt God who has sent you to the earth with a belief that you will not be wrong intentionally towards others. Rest all are just your co-passengers in your journey. You hardly judge your
co- passengers in any journey because you know you are parting ways sooner or later. You just intend to be good to them and not even the best at the cost of compromising on self.
-Sucheta Gour