
People management and parenting are ruthless jobs yet creative in nature and can never be technical or defined by a process
- – Sucheta Gour
People management and parenting are ruthless jobs yet creative in nature and can never be technical or defined by a process
You are wishing good for someone? Never regret. Every single account is handled well by God. Just dont expect goodness, gratitude in action or words in return from the one you helped. Don’t weigh his actions and words against yours.The one above is clear about your intent. There is none else more important to prove to.
Everyone comes across that one moment wherein you want to remain silent. Because your silence conveys beyond words to people who know you and creates a misunderstanding for people who do not know you… but still you prefer silence because wisdom lies in it.
-Sucheta Gour
There are two types of people who explain more…
1) One who explains more because of the guilt they carry of wrong doing to the other.
2) One who explains more because of the fear of losing your loved one’s trust due to misunderstandings.
Both sound the same. The analysis varies based on the personality of one who is explaining.
-Sucheta Gour
You get along people in their pain to comfort them and you have a companion for yours. Comforting others, you forget your own pain. And there are countless people in pain. So we can never complain of loneliness.
-Sucheta Gour
We hear people saying, “Forget the past. Start a fresh”….We need to analyse this statement and apply only wherever applicable.
Only our past mistakes guide us. We grow wiser with the analysis of these. They are the live examples to give us insight of how we or others acted, what were the reactions and repercussions.
Never forget your mistakes. Remember them to not repeat them in future. Most of the times we are facing the same scenario, people and situations. Overall 80% of our actions and responses are repetitive. Correcting them, Improvising them will make our life better.
It is nice to make new mistakes than repeat the old. It’s a sign of maturity.
-Sucheta Gour
Everyone is complaining….. in Covid
The rich are complaining that they’ll earn less. The poor are complaining that they have to take loans to feed their families and stay alive.
Covid infected are worried with the fear of death, uninfected are worried fearing that they might be infected.
People with salaries are worried that they have to compromise on their lifestyle or start spending their savings due to paycuts. Whereas people who have lost their jobs are worried that their financial committments will suffer.
The Govt is worried that the economy will be affected.
The women are worried that their isn’t any support of domestic help.
Men are worried that their freedom is compromised.
So eventually the complete picture shows everyone in worries, pain and cribbing about the scenario.
If there is less, there are worries, if there is least also there are worries, if there is nothing, also, there are worries.
So shouldn’t we think deeply? Why are we worried? Because we always want a picture perfect life. When was life so? When will we develop acceptance and learn to be happy looking at the worse scenarios.
-Sucheta Gour
90% of people never try to explore opportunities and conquer reasons.
Challenges are a part of anyone’s life.
We feel resorting to reasons is the best way to escape problems or accountability.
But only the strong and the ones who want to succeed, grow and win find solutions.
The rest of them are happy, proud and contented with the limitations they have drawn around themselves. And they feel their reasons hide their limitations.
But they don’t hide. Instead, such people grow timid in their approach to solve and grow wiser at finding reasons for everything.
Wisdom at its heights of misuse.
-Sucheta Gour