When you can describe others thoughts about you in black n white, you are the most unpleasant, presumptuous person..
When you can colour them with beautiful colours, you are a fool or the best person.
Make your choices.
Fake it before you make it. If you fake others thoughts to be good towards you in words before them, they are forced to maintain their dignity and keep themselves the way you’ve painted their thoughts about you.
Change people’s thought process.Worth a try, but, as an audience, who isn’t actually affected by the outcome.