Do You Think True Love Exist??

Does Love exist?
Yes it does.
Because you will have loved so many people genuinely.
Your Mom, Dad, Sibling, Spouse, child. So love does exist. Your belief about love is shaken when your love is not reciprocated.
The only question which needs an answer by everyone is was I loved? And this disheartens most of the people.
Because, their definition of love is either the way they loved their relations or the way they see the rosy, fancy love in other’s life which is visible only to them whereas the bitter part of other’s relation is never exposed by anyone.
Now, should everyone has one standard way of expressing love i.e., the best way. And who defines that standard way. Is it accepted by all in all the circumstances?
Well.. not really.

So when reciprocation of love is lacking exactly the way you loved, you are disheartened. You get judgemental about all relations. Disagreement and difference in opinions or views and voicing them out does not mean hatredness or absence of love towards the other. You are bound to disagee with many on many a aspects because you aren’t a clone of the other.
Be calm, hold back, do not question the existence of love. Question the choices you made with respect to people, expectations you have set on their mind, habits you’ve created for others, and your communications of what is acceptable and what is not. Open your hearts to your loved ones to let them know what you expect from them. Speak out emotions without a filter, fear and apprehensions. Life will get better.

-Sucheta Gour