When do you know she loves you?
When she can observe you for hours noticing and being amused with every expression of yours. She imitates you unknowingly.
When she forgets to see around when she is with you.
When she is keen on how you see her than how the world sees her.
When she can be the boldest across the world and still shy away when it comes to you.
When she annoys you for small things and fears your anger.
When she finds no flaws in your looks.
When she knows you like the back of her hand?
When she cares for you like an infant and seek your arms to feel secured.
When she cherishes every moment with you.
When she is cautious about her actions not to hurt you even when you aren’t around.
When she wishes your good by habit and not deliberately.
When she trusts you more than herself
When she fears losing you which shows in her possessiveness.
When people place and things remind her of you which means her world revolves around you.
When she is 100% sure you would never hurt her.
When she corrects your wrong and appreciates your right.
When she feels offended about anyone looking down upon you and corrects your flaws before others notice and look down upon you.
When she can find answers for your every question.
Pray for you day and night. When she can fight with God to change your destiny to good.
When she authorise you to be possessive about her love.
When she feels overwhelmed and proud of your success.
When she looks for her identity in you and you become her priority above herself.
When she is never contented by your achievement and keep aiming higher for you raising the bar of perfection.
When she tries every attempt to be your strength and not your weakness.
Stand by you through thick and thin. Motivates you knowing your shortfalls either by provoking you or appreciating you.
Help you recognise your strengths and boost them up. Recognise your weakness and make you overcome them.
When she doesn’t gauge you by your bank balance, but the emotional quotient of your heart for her.
And when all this is done unconditionally, you know you are the one she has chosen to belong to.
A combination of mother, girlfriend, wife and daughter.
And when does the woman get to know that he doesn’t love her?
When he doesn’t value any of the above and still questions your fundamentals.
Treats you like an intruder amidst his family. Is biased by his upbringing and society’s wrong influences alone and hardly behaves educated.
Keeps secrets from you.
Questions your integrity even at the end of your life.
Takes you for granted owing to your gender and the rules of society set for you.
Your 200% love is considered your bare minimum duty and even 10% reciprocation is considered a favor.
Not willing to compromise on his luxuries or fun which are considered needs but your needs are considered luxuries.
When he chooses you to compromise on your career, health and relaxation for his comfort.
When he is unaware of any of your sacrifices, your care becomes nagging and concern becomes irritation and botherance.
When you become one more woman on the earth and no more remain a special person though you do the maximum justice to the relation.
When he is sure that you wouldn’t leave him inspite of all his emotional torture or insensitiveness because your culture and society doesn’t accept your betrayal to him or independence from him.
A combination of a stranger, cheater and an enemy in disguise.
The next set of questions to follow in the next blog.
– Sucheta Gour
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