People ask me whether to chase the passion or be a dispassionate common man with average zeal. My advice is “Do whatever you can handle without regrets”. Chasing your passion comes with lot of unseen sacrifices and endless efforts. You aren’t chasing your passion for others, so, do not expect acceptance from others when you achieve your goals. That is the only way to enjoy your journey and destination if you are persistent on achieving your goals.
Hey Women! We have portrayed weak and despised upon ourselves all our lives. We envied each other, tortured each other, sympathized each other, pulled down each other, and bad mouthed each other. We motivated the society to be influenced by us and continue the legacy of the history way forward to future. We highlighted our weakness, our helplessness and our emotional mood swings.
80% of the Women don’t even know the meaning of women’s day or there exists a day like this or what difference does it make. And it actually doesn’t make a difference. It’s like Valentine’s Day or Father’s Day or Mother’s Day. It starts with a wish and further more a gift and a party.
For a change, this Women’s day let us not claim that we are strong or we are capable of handling all the relations and duties well. Because we don’t need a certificate for what we are. God has blessed us with many skills and inbuilt strengths.
This Women’s day take an opportunity to thank him and wish the world “Happy Women’s Day” for having been blessed with us. Donate to a cause of a Woman or Girl child. Men play similar roles of Father, Son, Brother, and Father like how we play Mother, Daughter, Sister, Wife, Daughter, but we do with more enthusiasm, colorfulness and with a smile.
So Hey Women, set yourselves on your wings to reach out to the sky. GIGGLE, LAUGH, LOOK GOOD, GO CRAZY, FREAK OUT, DANCE, SING, HAVE FUN.
You don’t need anyone to compliment you, motivate you and laugh with you. You deserve the best and all of it.
Happy Women’s day dear Woman!! Celebrating ourselves every moment!!
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Extreme love /possessiveness for the Child and Parenting skills are two different things. Every Parent loves their Child. There are hardly any Parents who do not love their Children. Few of them love them to an extent of doing anything for them whether it is right or wrong. Not always it is initiated with Child’s demands or needs.
Again at times it is because they want to portray an ideal Parent to the society and their Child. And hence chose wrong ways of Parenting.
Cases wherein Parents stand by their Child and believe in their Child to an extent that he can never be wrong.
Parents feel if not us who will stand by our Child and trust him?
Definitely true, but a clear indication has to be sent to the Child that just because you are my Child I wouldn’t always believe that you are right. I will stand by you if you are right and disown you if wrong. Since many Parents fail to do this the Children take wrong path and feel confident that their Parents will stand by them may what right or wrong.
There are enough cases of teenagers rash driving, wrong ways of fun, habits, drink and drive, rape cases or cheating on others. All these because they know the emotional weakness Parents carry.
In adolescence there are instances of Children trying to have two faces one with Friends and the other with Parents. Since it’s a growing phase there will be flaws in it. We got to know what to probe and know and what to ignore inspite of knowing. What to blow out of proportion and what to leave unnoticed. Trying to be cautious and to make our Child have a perfect opinion among relatives and friends should not leave the Child stressed and dual faced.
At times there is dependency developed. Parents underestimate or over secure the Child to an extent of doing everything and get him addicted to them that the Child further doesn’t feel confident without the Parent. In an attempt to be there for him always they turn out to be the host for a parasite.
Parents not realizing that the Child is growing and unwilling to give him his space. Definitely we got to know what he is doing, who are his friends, where is his thought process advancing. But over reacting on everything and trying to control all of the above to be a perfect picture will leave the Child stressed, distanced from the Parents. We say we don’t want him to think anything wrong. Let us understand what is wrong. He has a crush on someone. It’s a natural process of growing not to blow it out of proportion.
At times crossing the limitations to accommodate his demands. We feel we were deprived of many a things so we need to give our Children everything. We need not sympathize ourselves unnecessarily and try to compensate that by spoiling our Child.
There is a difference. Giving everything they require or deserve or we can afford or we want to prioritize just because he is our Child? These understandings should be well developed by us as Parents.
There are three things people will have skill issues, will issues or too lazy to do things. Definitely skill issues can be addressed will issues and laziness are the toughest ones to handle for any manager but a good manager would handle them too.
Will issue for many reasons like,
I don’t know the skill gap and I don’t want to know or bridge the gap either as that shows my shortfall and make me feel inferior.
My Company doesn’t recognise me why should I work more.
I have so much to deal with in my personal lives. I am executing my job with the best possible efforts. My Manager should be happy that at least I’m coming to office and not taking leaves.
If I do more, I will be asked to do the most and expectations will be endless.
Oh I’m doing so much let others do.
Let me find someone who can do and I will take the credit of it.
Let me pass on to a Junior who will have to do it to make me his Senior happy.
Let me do it later when it is really required.
Let me behave ignorant else I will have to do it.
Let me throw some impressive bunch of words so that words will satisfy my manager.
We read so many advise that this is how you ought to relieve stress or how you should make your relations better. These advise are just like notices on a notice board.
We are happy to read them and say ‘So nice’. We are more keen on appreciating the speaker.
We will implement it is what we think. We never try to know what are our shortfalls to execute them in our life.
We try in the wrong direction and fail and give up. We need to look within ourselves and see what we are and what is the required approach to deal with our short falls. Find the gap existing inside us and thereon implement the advise