National Women’s Day | Happy Women’s day to me!!! |

Hey Women! We have portrayed weak and despised upon ourselves all our lives. We envied each other, tortured each other, sympathized each other, pulled down each other, and bad mouthed each other. We motivated the society to be influenced by us and continue the legacy of the history way forward to future. We highlighted our weakness, our helplessness and our emotional mood swings.

80% of the Women don’t even know the meaning of women’s day or there exists a day like this or what difference does it make. And it actually doesn’t make a difference. It’s like Valentine’s Day or Father’s Day or Mother’s Day. It starts with a wish and further more a gift and a party.

For a change, this Women’s day let us not claim that we are strong or we are capable of handling all the relations and duties well. Because we don’t need a certificate for what we are. God has blessed us with many skills and inbuilt strengths.

This Women’s day take an opportunity to thank him and wish the world “Happy Women’s Day” for having been blessed with us. Donate to a cause of a Woman or Girl child. Men play similar roles of Father, Son, Brother, and Father like how we play Mother, Daughter, Sister, Wife, Daughter, but we do with more enthusiasm, colorfulness and with a smile.

So Hey Women, set yourselves on your wings to reach out to the sky. GIGGLE, LAUGH, LOOK GOOD, GO CRAZY, FREAK OUT, DANCE, SING, HAVE FUN.

You don’t need anyone to compliment you, motivate you and laugh with you. You deserve the best and all of it.

Happy Women’s day dear Woman!! Celebrating ourselves every moment!!

-Sucheta Gour

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Parenting Scenarios | Article about parenting | Daily motivational Blogs

Extreme love /possessiveness for the Child and Parenting skills are two different things. Every Parent loves their Child. There are hardly any Parents who do not love their Children. Few of them love them to an extent of doing anything for them whether it is right or wrong. Not always it is initiated with Child’s demands or needs.

Again at times it is because they want to portray an ideal Parent to the society and their Child. And hence chose wrong ways of Parenting.

Cases wherein Parents stand by their Child and believe in their Child to an extent that he can never be wrong.

Parents feel if not us who will stand by our Child and trust him?

Definitely true, but a clear indication has to be sent to the Child that just because you are my Child I wouldn’t always believe that you are right. I will stand by you if you are right and disown you if wrong. Since many Parents fail to do this the Children take wrong path and feel confident that their Parents will stand by them may what right or wrong.

There are enough cases of teenagers rash driving, wrong ways of fun, habits, drink and drive, rape cases or cheating on others. All these because they know the emotional weakness Parents carry.

In adolescence there are instances of Children trying to have two faces one with Friends and the other with Parents. Since it’s a growing phase there will be flaws in it. We got to know what to probe and know and what to ignore inspite of knowing. What to blow out of proportion and what to leave unnoticed. Trying to be cautious and to make our Child have a perfect opinion among relatives and friends should not leave the Child stressed and dual faced.

At times there is dependency developed. Parents underestimate or over secure the Child to an extent of doing everything and get him addicted to them that the Child further doesn’t feel confident without the Parent. In an attempt to be there for him always they turn out to be the host for a parasite.

Parents not realizing that the Child is growing and unwilling to give him his space. Definitely we got to know what he is doing, who are his friends, where is his thought process advancing. But over reacting on everything and trying to control all of the above to be a perfect picture will leave the Child stressed, distanced from the Parents. We say we don’t want him to think anything wrong. Let us understand what is wrong. He has a crush on someone. It’s a natural process of growing not to blow it out of proportion.

At times crossing the limitations to accommodate his demands. We feel we were deprived of many a things so we need to give our Children everything. We need not sympathize ourselves unnecessarily and try to compensate that by spoiling our Child.

There is a difference. Giving everything they require or deserve or we can afford or we want to prioritize just because he is our Child? These understandings should be well developed by us as Parents.

-Sucheta Gour

 

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Skill Issues, Will Issues and Laziness | Inspirational Thoughts | Daily Motivational Quotes

 

There are three things people will have skill issues, will issues or too lazy to do things. Definitely skill issues can be addressed will issues and laziness are the toughest ones to handle for any manager but a good manager would handle them too.

Will issues

Will issue for many reasons like,

I don’t know the skill gap and I don’t want to know or bridge the gap either as that shows my shortfall and make me feel inferior.

My Company doesn’t recognise me why should I work more.

I have so much to deal with in my personal lives. I am executing my job with the best possible efforts. My Manager should be happy that at least I’m coming to office and not taking leaves.

If I do more, I will be asked to do the most and expectations will be endless.

Laziness issues

Oh I’m doing so much let others do.

Let me find someone who can do and I will take the credit of it.

Let me pass on to a Junior who will have to do it to make me his Senior happy.

Let me do it later when it is really required.

Let me behave ignorant else I will have to do it.

Let me throw some impressive bunch of words so that words will satisfy my manager.

-Sucheta Gour

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Who loves whom?? | An Article about | Love | Relationship | Life | Quotes

When do you know she loves you?

When she can observe you for hours noticing and being amused with every expression of yours. She imitates you unknowingly.

When she forgets to see around when she is with you.

When she is keen on how you see her than how the world sees her.

When she can be the boldest across the world and still shy away when it comes to you.

When she annoys you for small things and fears your anger.

When she finds no flaws in your looks.

When she knows you like the back of her hand?

When she cares for you like an infant and seek your arms to feel secured.

When she cherishes every moment with you.

When she is cautious about her actions not to hurt you even when you aren’t around.

When she wishes your good by habit and not deliberately.

When she trusts you more than herself

When she fears losing you which shows in her possessiveness.

When people place and things remind her of you which means her world revolves around you.

When she is 100% sure you would never hurt her.

When she corrects your wrong and appreciates your right.

When she feels offended about anyone looking down upon you and corrects your flaws before others notice and look down upon you.

When she can find answers for your every question.

Pray for you day and night. When she can fight with God to change your destiny to good.

When she authorise you to be possessive about her love.

When she feels overwhelmed and proud of your success.

When she looks for her identity in you and you become her priority above herself.

When she is never contented by your achievement and keep aiming higher for you raising the bar of perfection.

When she tries every attempt to be your strength and not your weakness.

Stand by you through thick and thin. Motivates you knowing your shortfalls either by provoking you or appreciating you.

Help you recognise your strengths and boost them up. Recognise your weakness and make you overcome them.

When she doesn’t gauge you by your bank balance, but the emotional quotient of your heart for her.

And when all this is done unconditionally, you know you are the one she has chosen to belong to.

A combination of mother, girlfriend, wife and daughter.

 

And when does the woman get to know that he doesn’t love her?

 

When he doesn’t value any of the above and still questions your fundamentals.

Treats you like an intruder amidst his family. Is biased by his upbringing and society’s wrong influences alone and hardly behaves educated.

Keeps secrets from you.

Questions your integrity even at the end of your life.

Takes you for granted owing to your gender and the rules of society set for you.

Your 200% love is considered your bare minimum duty and even 10% reciprocation is considered a favor.

Not willing to compromise on his luxuries or fun which are considered needs but your needs are considered luxuries.

When he chooses you to compromise on your career, health and relaxation for his comfort.

When he is unaware of any of your sacrifices, your care becomes nagging and concern becomes irritation and botherance.

When you become one more woman on the earth and no more remain a special person though you do the maximum justice to the relation.

When he is sure that you wouldn’t leave him inspite of all his emotional torture or insensitiveness because your culture and society doesn’t accept your betrayal to him or independence from him.

A combination of a stranger, cheater and an enemy in disguise.

The next set of questions to follow in the next blog.

– Sucheta Gour

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Hold a mirror to our real self | Blog about Life | Motivational Sayings| Inspiring Blog

We read so many advise that this is how you ought to relieve stress or how you should make your relations better. These advise  are just like notices on a notice board.

We are happy to read them and say ‘So nice’. We are more keen on appreciating the speaker.

We will implement it is what we think. We never try to know what are our shortfalls to execute them in our life.

We try in the wrong direction and fail and give up. We need to look within ourselves and see what we are and what is the required approach to deal with our short falls.  Find the gap existing inside us and thereon implement the advise

– Sucheta Gour

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