When you can describe others thoughts about you in black n white, you are the most unpleasant, presumptuous person.. When you can colour them with beautiful colours, you are a fool or the best person. Make your choices. Fake it before you make it. If you fake others thoughts to be good towards you in words before them, they are forced to maintain their dignity and keep themselves the way you’ve painted their thoughts about you.
Change people’s thought process.Worth a try, but, as an audience, who isn’t actually affected by the outcome.
Winning arguments is cheap. Winning hearts is royal.
Teach your child to win hearts. Today’s generation is more keen on proving their point, be it right or wrong. And they can argue to any extent crossing the line of dignity in doing so. Adolescence sets up a platform to justify such behaviour too. But if it doesn’t get curbed in time, this awkward behaviour continues to remain with the child creating a sense of over confidence, superiority complex or inferiority complex hidden with arrogance.
Eventually when he is an adult ,the child reaches a stage where he feels he can get away with any argument just by overpowering the other and not developing wisdom by being a good listener. This leads to limitation of knowledge and unacceptance by others.
• No one gets to live a perfect life, a perfect relation. • Desire is the cause of misery. • Be happy with your lives. • Expectations ruin relations.
80% of Indian women have taken these statements so seriously that they eventually have landed up in a compromise of highest level with their lives. They’ve sacrificed themselves in the name of integrity, responsibility, family dignity, commitment and society. Their confidence levels are so low that, their expectations have reduced to food, shelter, clothing and a man’s protection in the society. They dont know how normal relations and a happy life would be. Their identities are either as a wife, mother or daughter. They dont exist as human beings in the first place with emotions and individual thoughts or ideologies. Their cant be a differentiation between a machine and them.
If they object or try to correct or keep expectations, they are treated like anti-social elements of the society or revolutionists. Wishing their own happiness, thinking of having their wish list also is beyond their imaginations. Whereas on the other hand, Men can have expectations from their wives throughout their lives. Women have to be instrumental in every way to satisfy his wish list either directly or indirectly. And inspite of her contribution in the man’s success, she is not credited with even due respect for her existence on the earth. This is where we stand as a society. India is an agricultural and labour force – focus country. And this is how, women are placed in both these areas.