By Someonewise 
People change.
People go by too.
Relationships end—sometimes without warning, without closure, without logic.
And yet, people spend years crying over someone who has already moved on.
The hard truth?
Everyone is a phase.
Some phases teach you.
Some phases break you.
Some phases simply pass.
But holding on to a phase that has already ended is a choice.
Take the good.
Learn from the bad.
And if it still hurts—have the strength to let it go completely.
Because nothing in life has the power to keep you stuck…
Except your own mind.